Neonatal Donors and Families
Please know our thoughts are with you and your family at this time. We appreciate your desire to donate, and are happy to support you in creating a legacy for your baby.
You may have already met with your local organ procurement organization. They may have discussed donation options with you. If you have not yet met with your organ procurement organization, we can help you get in contact with them.
As you will learn, transplantation allows donated gifts such as a liver, kidney or heart to save a life.
Unfortunately, transplantation is not an option for every donor. However, your baby may be able to donate organs and/or tissues to medical research and education that can benefit many, many lives.
The International Institute for the Advancement of Medicine (IIAM) is a non-profit organization that works with medical researchers in the U.S. and abroad.
We support families making donation decisions to find ways for their loved one’s gifts to help others. Through your local organ procurement organization, we will work very closely with you and your medical team to explore as many options as possible to provide a legacy for your baby through donation. Despite all of our efforts, donation may not always happen and we encourage you to have alternate plans in place as you near your delivery date.
The Conkel's Story
Below, view the story of Amalya Nathaniel Conkel, whose donations provided precious gifts to medical research and led to the beginning of IIAM’s Neonatal Donor Program. | See Their Story, Featured on Yahoo’s Home Page
Condensed Story (5 mins)
Full Story (10 mins)
When I Rode on a Float in the Rose Parade to Honor My Son’s Incredible Gift
“I sat there in complete awe of the events unfolding around me. It was like I was in a dream. I had a smile on my face so wide that it actually hurt. My momma’s heart overflowed with pride. With one hand I waved vigorously to a sea of faces, with the other I held tightly to an eight-by-10-inch picture.”
“On January 1, 2016, I had the amazing privilege and honor of ringing in the New Year by riding on the Donate Life float in the Rose Parade in Pasadena, California. Although it was a joy to ride, I did not ride for myself. I rode in honor of the person framed in that eight-by-10-inch photo.”
“My son. My sweet, precious baby boy…” | Read Bethany’s Story on TheMighty.com.
Thoughts You May Have...
Will I be able to hold and see my baby after he or she is born?
Yes, your care team will work very closely with you so that you will have bonding time with your baby. You and the medical team will be made aware prior to delivery of any critical timelines for consideration to ensure donation of your baby’s gifts remain possible. Your care team will support you to help balance personal time without compromising the recovery of the gifts.
You may also arrange time after organ recovery to hold your baby and proceed with any additional personal plans if you wish. Otherwise, we suggest you make arrangements with a funeral home and communicate this with your care team.
Will there be any expense to my family as a result of donation?
You will not incur any additional costs related to the donation. We recommend you discuss any hospital or customary delivery expenses with your caregivers so you have clear expectations.
What do I need to do?
1) Consent/Authorization: You will need to complete a Consent Form with the local organ procurement organization.
2) Blood Work: Blood work will be obtained to determine blood type and Rh factor of the mom. The blood will also be evaluated for standard infectious disease screening, including but not limited to HIV and hepatitis.
3) Medical-Social History: Completion of a questionnaire will provide the organ procurement organization with an understanding of important past medical history and social behaviors of the mom.
What donation options can we consider?
Presently, IIAM is working with researchers who are studying nearly every organ as well as different tissues. You may be able to donate all or some of these gifts. If there are multiple options, you will have the final decision as to what best meets your needs and wishes. It is important to understand that many factors are considered when determining what ultimately can be donated, and while every effort will be made to support your wishes for donation, clinical and logistical factors may determine that it is not always possible. Having an alternate plan is important for you and your family to discuss.
What happens to my baby when the donation has been completed?
Upon completion of the organ and/or tissue recovery, the hospital team will present your baby to you unless other arrangements have been made. Arrangements with a funeral home will need to be specified and will proceed as arranged.
If requested, IIAM will notify you when the research studies are complete, typically about 6 months from the time of donation. IIAM will provide you with feedback from studies and, to the degree possible, outcomes, if desired.
Is there someone I can contact for more information?
- You can communicate with a Family Services Coordinator at IIAM with any additional questions or needs you may have: 800-486-IIAM (4426).
- Once this process begins, we will pair you with one of IIAM’s team members who will partner with you and guide you through the donation process.
- Below is a list of other resources you may find helpful as you go through your journey.
Please know our thoughts will remain with you and your family. We deeply appreciate your desire to donate.
Anencephaly Specific Resources
These websites were designed for families carrying babies diagnosed with anencephaly. Both have extensive information, stories, and in-depth resources including birth plans, memory making ideas, grief counseling info and much more.